Some people’s intentions change moment by moment depending on what they hope to accomplish at your expense. They are users, takers, thoughtless persons. They have no sense of fraternity, integrity, responsibility; no sense of honor. No sense of family, having perhaps, not had any experience in the nurturing and love that is the true essence of that relationship. They are simply the product of opportunistic, reprobate thinking.
They are not friends and can never be friends because, like wolves in sheep’s clothing, they are mere sociopaths, incapable of taking responsibility and accountability for their handiwork, deeds and Word. They are incapable of feeling shame, guilt or remorse, and are constantly seeking to manipulate, play on peoples’ sympathies and weaknesses, and take advantage of the frailties of others.
They are self-interested and seek only dominate and “win” at all costs; living their lives conspicuously consuming to give false impressions of their reality. They live without boundaries, while lying and pretending to have scruples, though being totally devoid of such, as is evident in their actions as can be exposed by a little fact-checking.
They are pathologically unapologetic about their tactics and methods, as they cause pain and destruction in the lives of others, and then blame their victims for the pain and destruction they’ve suffered for believing this predator’s lies– “you did it to yourself because …..” or “I didn’t tell you to ….” or ” I didn’t force force you to……,” or they just outrightly concoct lies to conceal their dishonesty and cruelty, while further demonizing their victims.
Funny thing about the truth, it is like a weed, it will find its way to the surface always. Take my word, don’t allow yourself to feel ill by the ill-will of others, they are usually the source of their own demise if you get out of their way. I know, I have met a few of them, and probably have a few of them plotting now.
Anytime, you find people always telling stories about what someone else does to them after they were so good, ….they are the villain. dem a de problem. Our parents never lied when they said, all people can’t be wrong all the time, there must be something awry about the story.
You just have to make self preserving decisions sometimes, after critically assessing some things we take for granted…like someone telling you a story that you hear a lot of times from the same person, and it is always that person telling you, someone is saying they did them wrong, but the other person is terrible for talking about the wrong because it is a lie and people are always telling lies on them.
After feeling sympathetic, you sit back and critically and open-mindedly think about the situation and realize, how come da person deh story is always about somebody lying on them and taking advantage of them? Is it possible that everyone picks that person to target? or is that person the predator who targets people and then turns the story around?
Then you do a little digging as you should, because you deserve not to be taken for a ride, and then not to be made a villain because you call someone out on their wrong. What is sad is that some people get really hurt by this stuff and that really burns me. They are not like those who tell people where to go and dismiss them to crawl under the rock they came from under. That is the sad part. People are being taken advantage of and emotionally abused in the process, while these sociopaths fatten their egos.